Tuesday, 15 December 2015

Articles - The Guardian

http://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2015/nov/28/step-away-from-your-phone-the-new-rules-of-conversation
  • Step away from your phone: the new rules of conversation
  • “phubbing”. According to Sherry Turkle, the American sociologist of digital life, this involves maintaining eye contact with one person while text-messaging another.
  • Turkle’s thesis, in short, rings troublingly true: we’re more connected than ever, yet we talk – really talk – less and less
http://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2015/nov/28/how-to-talk-to-anyone-the-experts-guide
  • How to talk to anyone: the experts' guide
  • It can help to make your questions more specific
  • Try to meet your child’s emotions, rather than telling them how to feel
  • Teenagers often respond better if you’re doing something alongside a conversation, so they don’t have to give you a lot of eye contact
  • Using a bit of humour can help to defuse the tension
  • “The roof is an introduction”, which means that if you’re in the same place, you always have something in common.
  • It’s becoming more common for children to feel in competition with their parents
http://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/ng-interactive/2015/nov/28/the-conversation-that-changed-my-life
  • Eight writers on the conversation that changed their life